At some point in life you have to take a deep breathe & a hard look at things. You have to let go of the things/people that are full of drama. Take that little thing or person that ALWAYS upsets you or puts you in a foul mood… step back from it or them for a minute. Really look at it. Should you really give that thing or person that much power over you? Let it make you angry or sad? Sometimes we are so used to letting certain situations happen that we don’t do anything to change them. We don’t speak about it we just let it go. It’s a vicious pattern that so many of us are guilty of. Ever just get tired of always letting the same situation upset you? Usually means its time for a change. Change is never easy. You fight to hold on & fight to let go. There are a lot of different kinds of people life. People that give & people who take. Those who think about others & those who think only about themselves.
Reposting this from Oct 15th. Some people had asked about where to find my blog, so while I work on my most recent- check out the previous ones.
Theres a 3rd kind of person. The one that has thought of themselves above everyone else, and then gotten to the point where they look around and realize they're completely alone, having either looked passed the people they believed were noninfluential and stepped on the rest for their own personal gains. At that very pinnacle decided it was in the best interests of all to change their thinking, which includes opening up to people and wanting to explore the past that seemed to just breeze by and wanting to change the way other people viewed life that are currently living on a similar path. Change is only as difficult as you make it and you always have a choice, even if the choices that have presented themselves to you seem convoluted and not "fantastic". I am that "3rd type of person". So I speak in complete confidence when I say " Be the vehicle for positive change" be it in your own life or in the lives of others.
Posted by: Nicholas Pirro | 07/08/2011 at 03:04 PM
Change is never an easy thing. You have to be very uncomfortable in order to make a change. Think about this, when you are sitting in a chair for a long period of time don't you start to get uncomfortable? What is the first thing you do? You change your position. Just as in life when things get uncomfortable, you make a change. That change can either be the best thing you've ever done for yourself and you can find immediate satisfaction and results. Or it can be extremely difficult and feel like an absolute mistake. The fact is that no matter how difficult a change may be in someones life the true test is within that person on whether or not he or she can handle the change and put aside all of the hardships that may come with it and push forward knowing that once you have dealt with the repercussions, it is much brighter on the other side once you get there.
Posted by: Marctamburri | 07/11/2011 at 12:42 PM